5 Behaviors that Lead to Success and Happiness

5 Behaviors that Lead to Success and Happiness

When you are aware of your beliefs and thoughts about success and happiness, you can begin to shift your experience from living as a reaction to life toward creating your own highly successful life. As Mahatma Gandhi said, “Your beliefs become your thoughts. Your thoughts become your words. Your words become your actions. Your actions become your habits. Your habits become your values. Your values become your destiny.”

Take a moment to consider the possibility that success and happiness are not what happens to you, but what you get to choose in every moment of your life. You are unique, and the choices you make are infinite. This is why it’s important to have a clear vision of what happiness and success look like. Then, you must commit and hold yourself accountable to the required actions needed to create the life you really want.

One of the first actions you can take is to begin practicing impactful behaviors that will help guide you toward achieving your vision. Here are five practices that can be incorporated into a morning ritual or become part of a new daily practice. Try one or all of them, and see the difference it can make toward increasing happiness and success in your life.

1. Meditate
You don’t practice meditation to get better at meditating, you practice meditation to get better at life. The opportunities that present themselves to you outside of meditation prove meditation is working. Meditation is the one way to access the Self, who you really are—the energetic being within you. By cultivating a relationship with the Self (your essence) through meditation, you stay connected to the attributes of the Spirit, which are peace, calm, and joy, to name a few.

The practice of meditation is one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself. Meditation is more than sitting down and closing your eyes. If you have never meditated or wish to deepen your practice, seek out a teacher in your area who can guide you. Thanks to technology, there are also meditation apps that can be downloaded to your computer or phone, which provide ways to learn from the comfort of your own home. Here are a few to check out:

The Ananda App
The Mindfulness App
Insight Timer
Calm
Muse

2. Detach from the Outcome
It’s common to attach yourself to outcomes in an automatic and seemingly unconscious way. Notice where in life you are attached to the way something “should” be, whether that’s with people, circumstances, or yourself. By noticing when (not if) you are attached, you can consciously choose to detach, which frees you to:

Be your true self
Say what you truly feel
Allow others to be themselves
Detachment is freedom. This freedom is the “not knowing” or the field of uncertainty marked by:

Magic
Mystery
Adventure
It’s human nature to want to know how things will turn out. But, if you already know the ending, that’s no fun. Let go, detach, and enjoy the flow. Be surprised by what the Universe has in store, and delight in something even better than you could have imagined for yourself.

3. Move Energy from the Body
Over time, the body can accumulate stress. This buildup can lead to experiences of “feeling stuck” or “dis-ease” in the body. Thus, it’s important to have a regular practice in place to eliminate trapped energy from the body, allowing layers of stress to be released and restoring your body to a healthy state.

There are many effective ways to move stale energies out of the body and create space for the new, including:

Yoga (asanas or postures)
Pranayama (breath exercises)
Running
Toning (using sound to remove blockages in the body)

4. Seek Out Laughter
The Laughing Buddha is a symbol of abundance and happiness. Having this statue in your home or place of business is said to bring prosperity and good wealth, while also reminding you to keep things light. When things get too serious, try laughing to bring levity to life overall. Choose to find the humor in everything—it’s there, you just need to look.

At least once a week, make it a point to watch a funny movie, TV show, or live comedian. This vibration of joy brings more joy to us—it’s the Law of Attraction!

5. Eat Natural Foods
You eat for energy and for your body’s vitality. If you put low quality gasoline in your car, how well does it run? This same concept applies to your body. The more attention you give to the quality of foods you eat, the better you feel. When you feel good and have ample energy, you are happier and more successful in life.

Every day, you are bombarded with information about what to eat, when, and why. This can cause more confusion and lead to giving up on trying to eat well altogether. Keep it simple, and try to eat fresh foods, preferably from a local grower or farmers’ market.

According to Ayurvedic teachings, fresh foods carry more life force, or prana, that can improve your overall health. By eating this way, you will notice that the more natural the foods consumed, the better you will feel. Feeling good is your intrinsic nature. When you feel bad, you are out of balance with your true spirit. As a common rule when choosing what to eat, avoid FLUNC foods:

Frozen
Leftovers
Unnatural
Nuked (microwaved)
Canned
While there is no catch-all recipe for success and happiness, by practicing these behaviors, you can begin to recognize how to create the life you want to live. All of your experiences are the result of your thoughts and beliefs. Be aware of the thoughts you are choosing every moment, and notice the beliefs about yourself which lead to the events in your life. Awareness of your beliefs (they can be subtle) gives you access to adopting new ways of being, or taking new courses of action.

You are a powerful Creator. Create happiness and success in your life by having clear intentions for the future, while having your attention on the present moment throughout your day. For it is in the present moment that the future is created.

When Planets are Retrograde

When Planets are Retrograde

When we hear “Mercury is in Retrograde” this can put us into a panic. It is not necessary to panic, only to be prepared. All it means is don’t start anything new – go back and re-visit those things you started that are undone. Perhaps they need finishing, perhaps they don’t. Use the time to refresh, re-organize, re-prioritize. I like to think of it as the Universe’s way of giving us time to catch up! We can often feel like hamsters on a wheel, with not enough hours in the day. Use the time of retrograde to re-vamp your intentions, get clear on what you REALLY want, and trust the Universe is always on your side, and it NEVER wants to sideline your greatest wishes. We only need to use the powerful planetary energies to our advantage. Never fear, my dear!

Have You Set Your Intentions for the New Year?

Many of us begin thinking about our intentions for the New Year months before January 1st. Others of us are still thinking of them when January is finished. Wherever you are, it’s perfect. However, there is real power in spending time creating the upcoming year, otherwise, it can feel like life is happening to us, instead of for us.

Take out a clean sheet of paper and write this down: (or I can email you a form to use, just PM me):

“When 2016 is IDEAL, I AM:

BEING:

DOING:

HAVING:”

BE Specific. The more specific we are and the more we can FEEL into what an “ideal” year would be like, then we can begin to materialize it. We create what we visualize, which is why spending time in meditation or even writing things down as you see them is powerful. This is why vision boarding is so popular. We are manifesting all the time, no matter what. It’s empowering to write down your intentions and then watch them happen.

Once we have a vision for the upcoming year, this gives us the ACTIONS to take to get there. Taking inspired action then allows us to HAVE the life we want, rather than just wishing and hoping for things to turn out.

This is the start of an amazing year. Don’t wait! Let’s CREATE!